Why younger women desire oldermen

 

" The Chronicles: Why young women prefer older men "

 

By Dr. Reuben Peters, Phd
Excerpts from Dec 6, 2004 article
used by permission

 

Perhaps the most wonderful feeling for a woman is being under the wings of security and trust that only an older gentleman can provide. Men, after all, are providers by nature.

Women nuture and raise offspring. They do this by nature. All children flock to their beloved mothers or mother figures for love and support in times of need. But who provides this nuturing support for our mothers? Of course, this interesting paradox lends itself to a global loop in evolution. The provider and supporter of each gender is co-dependent on the other gender. Women need men just as men need women. As Socrates stated: "The same has been always."

Why do younger women find sexual arrousal in older men ... the misunderstood question pertains to my recent study dealing with masculine position and age over physical prowness in the circle of sexual co-dependence.

To answer why girls or young women find older men attractive, one must understand the female genders natural role in our evolution, as briefly mentioned above. Take, for instance, the case of M. Ringwater, an 18 year old school dropout who married a 60 year old man in Texas last year. What was is about Mrs. Ringwater that made her desire to marry and have sexual relations with a man 42 years older than she was? Mrs. Ringwater was dropped out of school - but not because of drug-related or abuse-related reasons. She was attractive but she wasn't sexually active. After marriage, Ringwater confessed to the press that she was still a virgin at the time of matrimony and prefered to be 'saving' herself for her husband, who she claimed was the icon of everything sane and secure in an otherwise shaken lifestyle. Ringwater wanted security.

It's not unknown around that world that relations of sex and security go hand-in-hand. Sexual intercourse is one of the most intimate acts we do as human beings to other human beings. A level of great security must always be satisfied before sexual partners reach a level of comfort (if not tolerance) to achieve successful intercourse. No wonder that women who prefer to make love to men much older than themselves also crave oral stimulation in addition to regular acts of sex behavior.

In a highly structured survey conducted earlier this year, we collected vast amounts of personal data from women between the ages of 18 and 26 who routinely craved older men in a nimphomatic way or performed acts of anal and oral pleasure with their senior aged partners. The data was staggering but, in another eye, completely in tune with the concrete laws of nature. These women wanted security. They needed the specific feeling that being with an old man provides so badly, performing acts of sex was hardly a detterent in resolving this internal struggle.

Women associate many specific traits with older men of senior-citizen age. Such traits are also attributed to what are known as sugar daddy's (older men who spoil younger ladies, usually for sexual favors). Some of the arrousing traits can be the smell of cologne, such as OldSpice, the smell and feel of a bank-roll of money, the smell of whiskey and cigarettes, the conversation over a game of cards, the humor of old jokes and off-hand remarks of yesteryear, the sound of music older generations were raised to, and the touch and feel of an older man's skin and hair.

It is not unnatural for women to crave the companionship and security of an older man when she has reached her prime reproductive age. Younger aged men are generally selfish, dumbfounded, or lack posture in their dating years. Older men are, as all indications have proven throughout time, better lovers and nuturers in bed. They provide more women with what they need and thus receive more satisfying sex than even in their earlier years.

Nature, in its simplest, most organic, raw, and purely unrefined form speaks to us with ease and sincerety of the great shepard who, wise in his age and seemingly frail in his body, descended from the Elysian fields to harvest his seed among the virgin towns of Jebeda and other such colonies. Often, a virgin was 'sacrified' to a male senior-citizen only to find complacency and serenity in a wholesome new life with her fatherly mate. It is among the most sacred truths in Chinese and European recorded history that the male is leader, the " Fertile Lord " if you will, overseeing domestic acts of impregnation (procreation) and recreation of intimate domain.

By making love to an olderman a woman reassumes her natural role in evolution.


Dr. Reuben P can be emailed at drrp@ seniorstuds.com but cannot discuss matters casually with his own patients (you know who you are) as per terms setforth herein.

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